The Height of Wedding Season: How to Stay Present and Stress-Free on Your Big Day
There’s a unique kind of magic in summer weddings. The light lingers longer, the flowers are in full bloom, and the atmosphere feels effortlessly romantic — just like this elegant moment captured between our real couple, perched above a grand staircase beneath a glittering chandelier.
But while summer is undeniably a beautiful time to get married, it’s also the busiest season for weddings, which means timelines can get tighter, suppliers book up faster, and the pressure to get everything “perfect” can start to creep in.
As a wedding planner, one of the most valuable things I can share with you isn’t about logistics or styling (although I love those too!) — it’s about mindset.
Here are 3 timeless tips to help you stay grounded and soak in every magical moment:
🌿 Choose connection over perfection.
It’s not about flawless timelines or centrepieces. It’s about how you feel when you catch each other’s eyes across the aisle, or take a quiet moment just the two of you on the day. Anchor yourself in the emotion, not the execution.
💡 Trust your team.
The best thing you can do on the day is hand over the reins. Whether that’s to your wedding planner, your venue coordinator, or a trusted friend — allow yourself to truly be present by letting go of the checklist.
✨ Schedule stillness.
It might sound strange, but deliberately carving out 10 minutes alone as a couple during the day (perhaps on a balcony like this one!) helps pause the whirlwind, reconnect, and lock in those core memories.
Summer weddings are full of golden light, celebration, and joy — don’t let the rush of the season rob you of the reason you’re there.
If you’re planning your wedding and want someone by your side to take care of the details while you soak in the magic, I’d love to help.
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Lexi Livingstone Weddings offers modern luxe planning and design for couples across the UK and Europe. From stately homes to hidden gems, I create celebrations that feel effortlessly elegant and deeply personal.